Each of us is looking for
something that could make us happy. And since we are human, we are trying on
searching for the things that could help us to forget all of the problems as
well as forget all of the unnecessary situations that we go through. I must
say, I’m a man who don’t have enough courage to face all of my problems, but I’m
not telling myself that I’m that weak to be not control all of my emotions and
weaknesses.
Upon walking in the road of
wonderings and road of failures and problems, God intend us to give the person
that we consider as “Bestfriend” and this person will be the reasons why we are
still strong and why we are still standing still. Now, the question, what will
be your basis or simple, what makes a true bestfriend?
Can you assure that someone will
become your true bestfriend if you will always make that person happy? Or is
the basis of being a true bestfriend is the number of days, weeks, months or
years that you shared? Is it the memories or is it the experience? Is it the
sharing or is it the sufferings?
In my life, I never expected that
I could find someone that I consider as bestfriend. I must say that in my over
20 years of existing in this world, I just have a few bestfriend. To be honest,
I don’t consider my girls closest friends as my bestfriend, why? It’s because
for me, being a bestfriend is something that you could open yourself and
willing to tell everything. A person who will not just make you feel happy but
rather, a person who could make you feel that you have a worth and feels like
you got the inspirations to him/her. And since I’m a boy, I was really praying
to God that I could find a person whom I consider as my bestfriend with same
sex with me. And I was not failed, God really makes me feel good and give me a
bestfriend that I really consider as my bestfriend.
Joie, this is the first
bestfriend that I have, he is handsome and we have almost same gestures, same
look (just kidding) and same attitude. I consider him as my bestfriend because
he’s the only guy that I could really spend my extra time with, when I was
still in school and a guy that I’m comfortable with. And after how many years
that we spend together, he is now happy with his career and he is a nurse, and I’m
so proud for him.
Jasfer Mark, the second
bestfriend that I have, actually it takes almost 8 years before I met my second
bestfriend. I was in the first year college when I met him, and I never
expected that he wants me to become his bestfriend. And his handsome, strong
and very talented, just like me of course, (LOL). I consider him as my
bestfriend because I can tell everything to him, laugh and crying with him. And
now, his happy with his life and with his career, I’m so proud as well as very
thankful because God let me know Jasfer.
As I continue my journey in
college, I found this very cute, talented and religious man, his name is Leymar
John. So proud with him because he finally got his job in one of the
municipality here in our place, and we became bestfriend when we are still
taking up our on the job training in Cagayan De Oro, Philippines. I consider him
as my bestfriend because we usually talks about our lives share our problems
and thoughts and share our naughtiness about girls, so happy spending time with
my third bestfriend.
And now, the current and the newest bestfriend
that I have, he is a high school student, again, another handsome bestfriend,
with full of confidence in his system. He is great and very intelligent, very
amazing and very proud of himself. I consider
him as my bestfriend as well as my inspiration, he open my eyes and my mind to
a new world and a new idea on what make life and what does God intend me to do.
He also opens my soul and my experience grows even wider and stronger. His name
is Sundie and I will not let anyone ruin our friendship.
For now, Leymar and Sundie are
the only bestfriend that I keep, since I don’t have any communication with my
other two bestfriend. But even though it is like this, I was really happy and
thankful that Lord experiences me to have them in my life. And I just hope that
I can keep my two bestfriend forever. Now that I already share my bestfriend,
can you also share yours?
